Who-Will-Follow-Who

Dealing with marriage thing, have brought us to lots of thoughts and acts extremely. Since, both of us live separately and having a kind of long distance relationship and moreover we have our career each, so here come a thought “who-will-follow-who”. Generally, we both agree that, once you decided to get married, we don’t use a word “separately” or “distance” anymore. But, when we talk about, “who-will-follow-who”, here comes some issues. So how we could get through from this issue?

Since we both agree, that we don’t dealing with “distance” in marriage, so, it’s easier for us handling this. There are some parameters that we used for assessment to decide “who-will-follow-who.

1. The condition of our work (type of our company, contract, career, salary, etc).

Each of us tried to expose the condition of our work and fortunately we have some extreme conditions that make us easier to choose the winner. In the other word, who can beat “Oil and Gas” company for God Shake? In principle, we agree that, the one that could support the family more powerful, he/she will win this issue.

2. The opportunity of getting a new job or do kind of job by self

We couldn’t be more agree in this issue, since, my education background is pharmacy, so, they called me pharmacist, a profession, that have an opportunity to do kind of job by myself without working to other people. I am the one who have opportunity becoming an “entrepreneur” as soon as possible.

3. The objective of marriage

As the bible told, "It is not good for the man to be alone." God saw that it was not good for Adam to be on his own; he needed a helper to complement and complete him. The animals had mates, but Adam was alone. It was God who created Eve and brought her to the man. It was God, as the Lord Jesus, who ordained the physical relationship which was to be consummated only within the marriage covenant.

"Marriage was ordained for the mutual help of husband and wife; for the increase of mankind with a legitimate issue, and of the church with an holy seed; and for preventing of uncleanness." After companionship, the main purpose of marriage is for the procreation of children. “Be fruitful and multiply and replenish the earth”.

In simple word we say “ we need each other so we have no reason anymore living separately.

But reason has no power against feeling. The heart has its reasons which reason knows not of.

Cheers

Poppy

Hello world, I am Back for Good

Hello there, After long time keeping the blog silence, here I am back, surely back for good. So, here is some updates about me.

I had graduated since last year, and officially became a pharmacist. No longer wait before my graduation day, with no hesitate, I decided join Sanbe Farma as a Product staff. It’s been 11 months now, and time flies so quickly, hey, I am experienced now. It’s so exciting, that I could add another information in my curriculum vitae complete with demanding higher salary, of course.

As I said before, time flies so quickly, entering the last week in March 2010, I am going to fly away a.k.a moving out to another city. A city that I never wondering, what the hell I am doing there J. But that’s life, you never know what will happened until you experienced itself .

Where do I go? Ok here’s the clue, I am going to the city that people say, “Visit Musi”. So, it’s must be Palembang. Officially in April 2010 I decided joining Charitas Hospital di Palembang as my new adventure. As my profession told me that I am a Pharmacist, so Pharmacy Store in hospital will be my next office.

Next, my friend-who become- my boy and friend asked me to join “two become one” club, J in other word, we often said “menikah”. Ouch, I really love that words. Since, he has to work in Palembang for a long..long time, with our estimation, maybe around 10 year in minimally, so someone have to moving out (please refers to second paragraph).

Lots of things happened around 2009, that I shall be grateful for what I have in my life. There are some picture above around 2009.

Regards,

Poppy