Who-Will-Follow-Who

Dealing with marriage thing, have brought us to lots of thoughts and acts extremely. Since, both of us live separately and having a kind of long distance relationship and moreover we have our career each, so here come a thought “who-will-follow-who”. Generally, we both agree that, once you decided to get married, we don’t use a word “separately” or “distance” anymore. But, when we talk about, “who-will-follow-who”, here comes some issues. So how we could get through from this issue?

Since we both agree, that we don’t dealing with “distance” in marriage, so, it’s easier for us handling this. There are some parameters that we used for assessment to decide “who-will-follow-who.

1. The condition of our work (type of our company, contract, career, salary, etc).

Each of us tried to expose the condition of our work and fortunately we have some extreme conditions that make us easier to choose the winner. In the other word, who can beat “Oil and Gas” company for God Shake? In principle, we agree that, the one that could support the family more powerful, he/she will win this issue.

2. The opportunity of getting a new job or do kind of job by self

We couldn’t be more agree in this issue, since, my education background is pharmacy, so, they called me pharmacist, a profession, that have an opportunity to do kind of job by myself without working to other people. I am the one who have opportunity becoming an “entrepreneur” as soon as possible.

3. The objective of marriage

As the bible told, "It is not good for the man to be alone." God saw that it was not good for Adam to be on his own; he needed a helper to complement and complete him. The animals had mates, but Adam was alone. It was God who created Eve and brought her to the man. It was God, as the Lord Jesus, who ordained the physical relationship which was to be consummated only within the marriage covenant.

"Marriage was ordained for the mutual help of husband and wife; for the increase of mankind with a legitimate issue, and of the church with an holy seed; and for preventing of uncleanness." After companionship, the main purpose of marriage is for the procreation of children. “Be fruitful and multiply and replenish the earth”.

In simple word we say “ we need each other so we have no reason anymore living separately.

But reason has no power against feeling. The heart has its reasons which reason knows not of.

Cheers

Poppy

Hello world, I am Back for Good

Hello there, After long time keeping the blog silence, here I am back, surely back for good. So, here is some updates about me.

I had graduated since last year, and officially became a pharmacist. No longer wait before my graduation day, with no hesitate, I decided join Sanbe Farma as a Product staff. It’s been 11 months now, and time flies so quickly, hey, I am experienced now. It’s so exciting, that I could add another information in my curriculum vitae complete with demanding higher salary, of course.

As I said before, time flies so quickly, entering the last week in March 2010, I am going to fly away a.k.a moving out to another city. A city that I never wondering, what the hell I am doing there J. But that’s life, you never know what will happened until you experienced itself .

Where do I go? Ok here’s the clue, I am going to the city that people say, “Visit Musi”. So, it’s must be Palembang. Officially in April 2010 I decided joining Charitas Hospital di Palembang as my new adventure. As my profession told me that I am a Pharmacist, so Pharmacy Store in hospital will be my next office.

Next, my friend-who become- my boy and friend asked me to join “two become one” club, J in other word, we often said “menikah”. Ouch, I really love that words. Since, he has to work in Palembang for a long..long time, with our estimation, maybe around 10 year in minimally, so someone have to moving out (please refers to second paragraph).

Lots of things happened around 2009, that I shall be grateful for what I have in my life. There are some picture above around 2009.

Regards,

Poppy

Happy mother' Day, Mom!

Dearest Mom,

Having a mother like you since I was born was the greatest gift and biggest advantage anyone could ever have given me. It is because of the confidence and values that you instilled in me that made me who I am today. Thank you for shaping me into a person who I like and am proud to be. Thank you letting us believe that we could be whoever we wanted to be, do whatever we wanted to do, there were no limitations except our drive, ambition and creativity.

Thank you for never giving up on me when I went through a dark period, when I shut every one out of my life. When loving me must have been like trying to hold a cactus. Thank you for loving me through all of my rejections of help and love.

Thank you for your knowing what to do in an emergency, and thank you for providing us with the things we need to get through the day; and thank you for helping us with our homework if we have trouble understanding it and not getting mad at us if we fail and encouraging us to do better next time and supporting us whenever we are struggling with our schooling.

Thank you for holding my hand when I had my - unbelievable-year, for crying with me afterawards.

Thank you for always having hope for me when I didn't have for myself.

Thank you for telling me not to give up when I said I couldn't do it any more.

Thank you for mediating in the relationship with my sister, I know it mus be very hard for you to be stuck in the middle of the tension that was between us. Thank you for never taking sides, for being there for both of us equally, for being the perfect mother.

Thank you for helping me doing my homework since I went to school for the first time.

Thank you for driving me to school and picking me up from school and all the way for many years.

Thank you for letting me choosing my uni, and also my major for school.

Thank you for all calling, all text messages ever day, since I left home for Uni.

Thank you for your time, always listening for me after I had any test/exam or anything like that until now.

Thank you for always being my mom, while I often make you sad, and cry.

Thank you for teaching us how to pray and taking us to the church. Thank you for our church family, and thank you for teaching us about God and Jesus and all those people from the Bible!

Thank you for praying for me every day and always teach me that We have a Big Father who always looking for us everytime.

Thank you for teaching me to love every people around us especially our family, no matter how they treat you good or not. But you always shares your love.

Thank you, Mama, for teaching us about compassion and caring for other people; thank you for reminding us that even though we may have it bad at times there are always others who have it so far worse; and they are the ones who need our help and our prayers!

Thank you for letting me walk with a boy that I chose until now, even you have a best choice for me.

Thank you for everything you have done for me, thank you for everything you have said, and for all the times when you said nothing and just listened.

Thank you thank you thank you. For a million things, for everything. I don't know what I would do without you. There are so many many more things, small things, big things.

I love you very very much, if I could be half as good a mother to my children as you are to your children, I will have done exceptionally well.

Thank you mother, I love you, more than words can ever express.

For each mile that keeps us apart, there's a warm thought that brings us together.

Happy mother' Day, Mom!

Love'

Poppy